One of the cigar-box mysteries has been solved

27 Jun

Perhaps the most rewarding part of writing this blog is watching how it connects our community. Today I have a follow-up to one of my recent posts which is a perfect example.

A little more than two weeks ago I posted a blog titled “History in a cigar box.” It described a treasure trove of information about the veterans buried in our Webster cemeteries, which had been found in a cigar box in a storage room at the American Legion. On more than 150 small notebook pages, someone had meticulously recorded, in hand-written notes, each veteran’s name, personal details, which cemetery he is buried in, and what lot number. Most of them also included much more information, including the soldier’s rank, war(s) and battles he fought in, enlistment and discharge dates, even his commanding officer’s name. No one seemed to know who had gathered all that information and kept such detailed records, or why.

A few days after I posted the blog, it was re-printed in the Webster Herald as my History Bit, which I write monthly for the Webster Museum. The photo which accompanied both the blog and the Herald article was the one you see above, with the cigar box and a soldier’s photo.

Just a few days after that, I received this email from Janice Smith, which cleared up one of the mysteries:

Your story on page one of the Herald shows my dad Harry Brewer. And I’m about 99.8% sure that it was him who collected the notes about Webster soldiers. He ran his own gas station on Empire at Plank Rd., and he saved everything. He had at least 25 empty cigar boxes upon his death (he sold cigars, never threw out anything). He was a dedicated member of the Legion for 67 years.

Also, the photo on page three shows the kind of little flip-page note book he used to record credit purchases in for his best customers. At the end of each month he’d tally up each customer’s charges and write them a statement and mail it to them. That’s some of his handwriting.

I connected Janice with Cherie Wood, the current caretaker of the pages. About a week ago, we all met at the Webster Library so Janice could look through her father’s old records and hopefully shed some light on why he created them.

Her father, she remembered, was very interested in genealogy and in his Webster neighbors. He grew up on East Main Street in the village, and even as a teenager would sit at his uncle’s gas station at the corner of Empire and Plank, and listen to the men talk and tell stories. Later, when he owned the station, he started writing those stories down on his little notepad.

“He was curious,” Janice said. “I can remember sitting in the station when he was talking with someone whose grandfather had been in the wars, and was writing notes about them.” And he clearly kept adding to his records as he learned more; on some of the pages, subsequent notes are written with different pens, and often there was so much information it flowed onto the back of the page. Like the one soldier who fought in 18 Civil War battles, each one listed individually, and was present at Lee’s surrender at Appomattox.

Janice also added a very interesting footnote to the story of Sylvester Brewer, whom I mentioned briefly in the original blog.

Sylvester — Harry Brewer’s distant cousin — was taken prisoner at Spotsylvania during the Civil War and spent three months in the infamous Andersonville prison in Georgia. He survived his imprisonment, and upon his release, traveled by foot all the way home to Webster. Janice estimates it took him about three months. When he got home, he walked into the West Webster Hotel (where the Jade Palace is now) where his father was bartending. Sylvester was so emaciated from the war, imprisonment and long trip home that his father didn’t even recognize him.

Why Brewer was keeping the records is still not clear. But the fact that the pages record exactly where each veteran’s gave is located seems to indicate they were referenced when the American Legion placed flags every Memorial Day.

“I think he was involved in placing the flags,” Janice said. “He was always involved in decorating (the graves).”   

Whatever the reason Harry Brewer decided to fill his little notebook with details about our local veterans, we owe him a huge debt of gratitude. His curiosity, connection with the Webster community, and his passion for collecting stories have enriched our knowledge and helped us remember and honor our fallen heroes.

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(posted 6/27/2026)

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Musicians take over the White House

25 Jun

If you’re an Irish musician and you live in or near Rochester, chances are good you were at a party up at Webster Park on Saturday the 13th.

The occasion was the annual “Stand Around and Play Some Tunes” gathering, at which musicians of all kinds are invited to … well, stand around and play. The event was begun perhaps 40 years ago by well-known local Irish musician Lynn Pilaroscia, an invitation for his musician friends (whether Irish, folk, bluegrass or others) to hang out together, enjoy some food and drink, and play some tunes.

When everything really got going, it was quite a treat for the eyes and ears. At any one moment during the afternoon you might see anywhere from four to seven small groups of musicians, each in a different corner of the White House property — the front porch, the back porch, under a tree, in the main room — jamming. No matter where you were, music surrounded you: bluegrass, waltzes, folk tunes, and traditional Irish jigs, reels and ballads. And the variety of instruments was always astounding: flutes, concertinas, banjos, guitars, string basses, mandolins, accordions, tin whistles, bodhrans, and lots of fiddles.

Thanks to our significant involvement in the Rochester Irish community back in the 1990s, my husband and I knew Lynn well and attended many Stand Around and Play gatherings. It was a great chance to visit with old and new friends from the Irish community and listen to some trad Irish tunes. My favorite memory is when my son Sean — who at 5 years old was inspired by Joe Dady to take up the fiddle — actually got to chat with Joe at one of these parties, and play his fiddle.

Around 2014, Lynn decided to take a break from the parties, in large part because his friend who had done all the grilling wasn’t able to do it anymore. For a long while, the event was forgotten. Lynn passed away in July, 2024 before resurrecting the annual musical gathering.

But last year, and again this year, thanks to the efforts of John Michael Ryan, Jonathan Kyle, and Comhaltas Ceoltoiri Eireann, the Rochester Irish Musician’s Association, Stand Around and Play returned to the White House. Once again, music of all kinds filled the air from all corners of the building (mostly indoors this year since it rained buckets that Saturday). Perhaps because of the threat of nasty weather, attendance was down. But organizers are hoping that in the years to come, the event will continue to grow again, and Lynn’s dream is rekindled, bringing musicians together to do what they love most: play music.

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(posted 6/25/2026)

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Checking in with Threads and Tonic

24 Jun

I popped into Threads and Tonic the other day, just to see how things were going. The shop’s been open for about three weeks now at 20 West Main St. in the Village of Webster, and I hadn’t been in since I wrote my first blog about the new place. So I wandered down to check in and get an update.

Turns out, things are going pretty great.

Threads and Tonic is owned by Tracy Adkins, who’s passionate about both bartending and vintage clothes. With her new mocktail bar, she’s found a brilliant way to combine those two interests into a quirky little shop which blends a healthy, no-alcohol social gathering place with a casual vintage clothing shopping experience.

The Webster community has embraced Threads and Tonic warmly. Tracy’s been seeing a steady stream of customers come through, some for the mocktails and fresh-pressed juices (which are especially popular), others for the clothes. Many for both. It’s been a strong start so far, which she’s continuing to build on, with lowered prices, regular specials and sales, and a brand new food menu.

Right now her specials include:

  • Thrift and Tonic Tuesdays: 10% vintage clothing, and $1 off any mocktail or NA beer
  • Wellness Wednesdays: purchase any NA beer, juice or mocktail and get a free wellness shot
  • Teacher Appreciation Thursdays: 20% off
  • Plus, first responders and military get 20% all day, every day

And the new food menu? It includes treats like a charcuterie plate, loaded hummus and homemade pineapple peach salsa. (I tried this — it was to die for).

All together — the drinks, the food, the comfortable living-room-esque seating, and the staff — make for a very welcoming experience. In nice weather you’ll even find the front door propped open, an invitation to wander in, browse the vintage clothes, grab a drink and perhaps a snack, and just pause our crazy lives for a just a little while.

Threads and Tonic is located at 20 West Main St. in the Village of Webster. It’s open Tuesday through Saturday, 11 a.m. to 8 p.m. Find out more and watch some very cute Instagram videos on their Facebook page.

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(posted 6/24/2026)

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Radio Club Field Day will broadcast again from Kent Park

23 Jun

Several days ago I wrote about an extra-special Field Day event hosted at Webster Schroeder High School for some preschoolers. Today I want to remind you about a completely different Field Day, the XRX Radio Club Amateur Field Day, taking place next Saturday and Sunday June 27 and 28.

This Field Day does not have popsicles or hoop games, a huge parachute or bubbles. Instead, its main attractions are antennae, laptops, solar power stations and radio contact with people from around the world.

On Field Day, operators are challenged to transport their equipment away from their homes, set up in a park or remote area, rebuild their stations, put up antennas and broadcast in quasi-emergency conditions, “off the grid,” without drawing electricity from RG&E or using the internet or cell phones. Operators use generators, batteries, or solar cells for power, along with temporary antennas to simulate emergency conditions. (Last year’s effort even featured a completely solar-powered station and antenna held aloft with a kite.) They communicate via voice, Morse code and computers connected to transmitters. The goal is simply to contact as many other stations as possible during a 24-hour window, overcoming any challenges thrown by weather or technical problems along the way.

Last year, in addition to the operators’ usual communications with stations across the US and Canada, they also made contact with several European stations, demonstrating their ability to “get through” in the event of a real emergency.

Field Day takes place every year on the fourth weekend of June at more than 1,000 parks and publicly accessible sites across the country, and involves more than 30,000 radio amateurs. It’s part competition — to see who can make the most contacts — but also an educational opportunity, a chance for the amateur radio operators to showcase their equipment and skills to the general public.

Visitors are welcome and encouraged, so if you’re even a little bit interested in amateur radio, you should stop by. You’ll probably even get a chance to go on the air.

It all happens in the soccer field area at Kent Park, 1700 Schlegel Rd., at the end of the long driveway. Set up begins on Saturday June 27 at 10:30 a.m. The exercise officially starts at 2 p.m. and runs through 2 p.m. on Sunday. Visitors can stop by anytime.

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(posted 6/23/2026)

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JF Jones celebrates Grand Opening

22 Jun

Congratulations to Brittany Jones and her new jewelry store, JF Jones Jewelers, which celebrated its grand opening last Friday morning with an official ribbon cutting ceremony.

Several family members, friends and local officials attended the gala event. It celebrated the next chapter for the family-owned business, which has a history that stretches back to 1928 when Brittany’s grandfather, Joseph F. Jones, founded the business. It also marks the first time JF Jones has operated on the east side of Rochester, after decades — and many locations — in Greece. (Read more about the JF Jones story in this blog.)

The gala event featured a whimsical Alice in Wonderland theme, complete with a “tea party.” After all, Brittany explained, “Growing up in a jewelry store was kind of like growing up in my own little wonderland,” so the theme seemed like a natural fit.

Welcome to Webster, Brittany and JF Jones!

JF Jones Jewelers is located at 1170 Ridge Rd., next to Heart to Heart Bride.

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(posted 6/22/2026)

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Elementary students got to meet “Reboot” the robot last week

21 Jun

Students at Dewitt Rd., Schlegel Rd. and State Rd. elementary schools got a chance to come face-to-face with an actual rolling, climbing and basketball-playing robot last week when high schoolers from the Webster SparX Robotics Team visited the schools to demonstrate their robot, which they’ve named “Reboot.”

Along with getting to drive the robot ans asking the SparX team members questions, the students learned some interesting tidbits about the club and the robot including,

  • Students from Webster Schroeder and Webster Thomas built the robot in six weeks.
  • Reboot weighs 115 pounds.
  • It can shoot balls over 10 feet in the air and exceed 30 mph.
  • It uses XBOX controllers to control it.
  • Students designed the robot using CAD technology.
  • SparX competed at the Finger Lakes Regional in March at RIT and the Tech Valley Regional at MVP Arena in Albany in April, and had very strong showings in both.

The 2026 competition season featured an archaeology/history-inspired theme called REBUILT. The game required alliances of three robots to race around the field, collect foam balls called “Fuel,” and launch them into large goals known as “Hubs.” To get maximum points, the robots had to pull themselves up and hang from different vertical levels of a ladder-like tower before the buzzer sounded.

So, basically, Reboot had to quickly scoop up foam balls, aim and launch them into a shifting goal, and then lift its entire 100+ pound frame up a metal tower. Pretty impressive.

The demonstrations will continue this coming week at Klem North and Klem South elementary schools and Willink Middle School.

For more information about joining, mentoring, or sponsoring the Webster robotics team, visit gosparx.org or contact David_Schenk@webstercsd.org and Keith_Karnisky@webstercsd.org.

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(posted 6/21/2026)

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Webster Village Band summer concerts begin soon

20 Jun

The Webster Village Band concert season is just about upon us.

The band’s first FREE concert is Wednesday, June 24, held in conjunction with the Webster Arboretum’s 250th Anniversary Celebration. It will begin at 6 p.m. (STay tuned for more information about this huge party.)

The special Arboretum event is just the first of four concerts the Village Band will be presenting this summer, the other three scheduled for Thursday July 2, Thursday July 23 and Thursday Aug. 27.

Here’s what you can look forward to from this year’s performances:

  • July 2: Patriotic Music Night — Celebrate our nation’s 250th birthday with favorites like “Armed Forces Salute,” “America the Beautiful,” and classic marches.
  • July 23: Great Band Repertoire — Enjoy a wide mix of concert band classics plus music from Billy Joel, Hello, Dolly!, and Ray Charles
  • Aug. 27: Celebration Concert — A fun, upbeat program featuring Hollywood themes, big band tunes, 60’s vibes, and a Disney medley.

The Webster Village Band is directed by Andy Kittleson. The July and August concerts are held at the Harmony Park band shell (Foster Dr. & Phillips Rd.). They always begin at 7 p.m. and audience members are encouraged to bring a blanket, lawn chairs and a cooler, and stretch out on the spacious lawn area in front of the band shell to enjoy some beautiful music under the evening summer sky. If the weather doesn’t cooperate, they’ll move inside to the Cherry Ridge chapel at 900 Cherry Ridge Blvd.

These concerts are always free and open to the public.

I’ve always thought of the Webster Village Band as a hidden gem in our community. These musicians have been performing and providing free concerts for our village for 59 years now. It’s exactly the kind of thing that makes small-town life so special.

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(posted 6/20/2026)

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Raise the Stakes for Webster Comfort Care Home

19 Jun

Sure, sure, sure … it’s still a few months away, but plans are well under way for the Webster Comfort Care Home’s 5th Annual Raise the Stakes Casino Night, scheduled for Saturday, Sept. 12 from 6 to 10 p.m. at the Webster Golf Club, 440 Salt Rd.

This is an exciting evening of gaming, prizes and fun while supporting a great cause. Webster Town Supervisor Alex Scialdone will emcee the evening, which will have casino-style gaming tables, a silent auction, raffles, cash bar featuring a signature cocktail and mocktail, appetizers, hors d’oeuvres, light bites, and desserts. Plus, everybody gets $500 in complimentary chips included with admission (additional chips available for purchase).

Tickets are $75 per person, and they’re available now. There are also plenty of sponsorship opportunities ranging from ads in the program for $25 to a Blackjack Table Sponsorship for $2,500. Click here to purchase tickets, ads and sponsorship opportunities.

Bring your friends and enjoy a memorable night with plenty of chances to win. Every dollar raised supports the compassionate end-of-life care provided by Webster Comfort Care Home.

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(posted 6/19/2026)

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Grad parades celebrated the Class of 2026

18 Jun

I’m not sure how I manage to be so lucky, but every school year I somehow find myself subbing in one of the elementary school buildings on the day of the Graduate Parade.

Anyone who reads my blog regularly is familiar with this very fun and meaningful tradition. Parade Day is a chance for our Webster Thomas and Schroeder seniors to revisit the elementary and middle schools where they began their Webster School careers.

This year I was helping out in the library at Plank North Elementary when the Webster Thomas High School Class of 2026 came parading through. This was an especially meaningful year for me since it was the first time I was in a building where I had actually worked when these students were in 5th grade. So, for the first time, I actually knew many of these kids and some of them remembered me.

It’s really an experience to see these young people stream through the halls. Nodding to the fact that it’s sometimes difficult to recognize these tall, mature adults for the freckle-faced young people they once were, each senior wore a sign with his or her name and post-graduation plans. As they paraded down one hall, then another, they passed hundreds of cheering and applauding preK through fifth grade students, many of them holding signs of congratulations. Every so often the parade was slowed when a graduate stopped to take a photo or get a long hug from a favorite teacher.

After the seniors headed back outside, it didn’t seem like anyone wanted to leave. Friends clumped in small groups to take a final Plank North photo together, and a handful of teachers took the chance to catch up with some of their former students. Finally, everyone gathered in front of the building for one last photo, a final memory of the place where their school journeys began.

What a wonderful way to celebrate our seniors, congratulate them on their success, and remind them how much they’ve accomplished.

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(posted 6/13/2026)

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Webster community mailbag

17 Jun

We’re going to begin today’s mailbag with a fun event taking place this weekend — a Raise the Steaks Meat Raffle to benefit Challenger Miracle Field.

It takes place this Saturday, June 20 from 5 to 9 p.m. at St. Nicholas Society, 206 Madison St., East Rochester. Tickets are $20, and you can purchase them online here. (This is a 21+ event.)

If you’ve never been to a meat raffle, you’re missing out on a great evening of raffles, drinks, apps, lots of laughs and lots of chances to bring home the bacon — literally (or steaks or hot dogs or pork chops…).

All proceeds will benefit Challenger Miracle Field, which provides people with developmental, physical or intellectual disabilities a barrier free, safe, accessible place to experience the health benefits and joy of play through baseball, other team sports, and adaptive recreational equipment.

Support the Webster Comfort Care Home

The Webster Comfort Care Home is promoting a fund-raiser in collaboration with Webster Interiors.

From June 1 through August 31, Webster Interiors, located at 975 Ebner Dr., will donate a portion of qualifying sales to support the compassionate end-of-life care provided by the Webster Comfort Care Home.

  • 25% of all in-stock furniture, accessories, lighting, and area rug purchases will be donated.
  • 10% of all special-order purchases will be donated.
  • You’ll receive Webster Interiors’ guaranteed best pricing.

Participating is easy: simply show a screenshot of this post when you visit the Webster Interiors showroom and let them know you’d like your purchase to support Webster Comfort Care Home. Every purchase can make a difference.

Old books. Great prices.

The Friends of the Webster Public Library’s next Vintage and Collectible Book Sale has been scheduled for Saturday, July 18 from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. in the library’s community room.

You can browse 14 tables and about 250 books, which will be conveniently sorted by theme. Most books will be priced below $20. Check the flyer for more details.

The Webster Public Library is located at 980 Ridge Rd., at the back of Webster Plaza.

Calling all 1971 RLT grads!

The RL Thomas Class of 1971 is planning its 55th reunion, scheduled for Friday and Saturday, Oct. 2 and 3.

Plans right now are for an informal gathering Friday night at Bill Gray’s on Ridge Rd., followed by a big party open Saturday at the White House at Webster Park.

More details will follow, but in the meantime, mark your calendars!

An aromatic Christmas in July

The public is invited to beat the heat and step into a winter wonderland (without the snow) for the Christmas in July flower show on July 23, filled with festive floral displays, sparkling holiday decor, and the sweet scent of the season in full bloom.

Wander through beautiful themed arrangements, gather inspiration for your own celebrations, and enjoy the magic of Christmas wrapped in summer sunshine. The event will also feature horticultural, educational and children’s exhibits.

Two clubs from Webster, Country Gardeners of Webster and Klemwood Garden Club, will be represented, along with 23 other clubs in and around the Rochester area.  

“Christmas in July” is presented by the 7th District Federated Garden Clubs of NY, and will be held on Thursday July 23 at the Damascus Shrine Center, 979 Bay Rd., from 1 to 5 p.m. It’s open to the public and free of charge. Plus, there’s plenty of parking.

Bring your friends, bring your family—and experience the joy of the holidays in a whole new way! 

What do you love about the library?

The Webster Public Library’s community survey is still up and running, and the folks over there would really like your thoughts about their spaces and services.

Through August 1, they’re asking library patrons to fill out a quick survey. Your answers will help them figure out which spaces and services people are really happy with right now, and which ones might need improvement. Basically, you’re going to help them decide how best to spend their limited funds.

It’s a really quick survey, and only takes about five minutes, and aside from asking your gender and age for statistical purposes, you can fill it out anonymously. BUT if you’d like a chance to win a library swag bag, make sure to include your email address at the end.

There are a few ways you can access the form. First, try this Microsoft form. But if that doesn’t work on your browser, click through to the library webpage here, where you’ll find a link which should work. The survey will be available through August 1.

Chamber welcomes new staff member

The Webster Chamber of Commerce recently welcomed a new staff member on their team, Colleen Heinle.

Colleen has been hired as an Administrative Assistant. Her background includes professional responsibilities involving management, staffing, training, and administrative support.

Colleen enjoys working outside in her yard and garden, growing her own herbs and vegetables. She loves to read historical fiction, memoirs, and autobiographies. On the screen she enjoys historical and period dramas, Food Network, Jeopardy, news, current event shows, and “anything Martha Stewart.” Her pride and joy is her son Joseph, serving as a Lt. in the US Air Force BioMedical group, stationed in Abilene, TX. You may even see her at the Memorial Art Gallery, a beloved go-to.

The Chamber’s membership and use of services — especially their rocENROLL HEALTH health insurance services — have been expanding rapidly, so adding a new assistant became necessary to help handle the workload.

Fairport Angels Blood Drive

Here’s an event that’s actually happening in Fairport, but I know is well supported by our Webster community members:

The Fairport Angels Annual Blood Drive will be held Wednesday, June 18 from 1 p.m. to 7 p.m. at St. John of Rochester gymnasium, 8 Wickford Way in Fairport.

This annual blood drive is held in memory of the “Fairport Angels” — Hannah Congdon, Bailey Goodman, Meredith McClure, Sara Monnat and Katie Shirley — all Fairport High School seniors lost their lives 18 years ago in an accident only five days after their graduation day. The drive is a way to keep their memories alive and help others.

This is a very popular blood drive, so pre-registration is recommended so the Red Cross can adequately staff the drive. Call 1-800-RED CROSS (1-800-733-2767).

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(posted 6/17/2026)

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